- 6 years ago
Just venting here, as my Fiance both agree weddings bring out the worst in people. this week has been no exception to that rule. A few things:
Turns out my dad texted my brother Friday saying he isn’t sure he can make it to my wedding. Yup, my own dad. He said he is worried about his job and being the oldest guy in a young crowd, doesn’t want to drive up for the weekend (when he is supposed to be in the showroom saturday) and then possibly get terminated. The boss is basically looking for reasons to terminate him as he is close to retirement. I keep telling him not to worry-my Fiance is an award-winning Ontario HR rep and I already have a job lined up for him through a client that is expanding their Barrie area territory IF his current job falls through. I don’t know if he really believes it, as he isn’t listening. I know its hard to leave your career in the hands of your kid, but we got this-we are pretty skilled at sending scare letters and demand letters IF they were to can him for attending my wedding. (My dad is an outside sales manager).
There could be other reasons but so far, he is not letting my know. It is a mess, and at this point , I don’t know if he is walking me down the aisle.
Next up is my sister in law. Or…ex sister in law, as was feared. Turns out my ex SIL moved here from the US, leaving her husband behind. He came up to get her, she just got a nice big inheritance so funny how she doesn’t need her husband anymore-so she left him and has cut everyone off.
This was just found out and been confirmed a week before the wedding as well-they are separated and probably divorcing.
You think I would be surprised; shocked, stressed..
I think I am stil lin the shocked stage right now and just tired of al lthe drama to the point I just dont give a F! anymore and that as long as Fi and I are there, that’s all that matters.