- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
Hi Bees! So we really want to have a (very) informal morning-after brunch near the hotel where everyone is staying. The thing is, we can’t really afford to pay for the brunch. We don’t so much want to treat this as a “party” with decor and all that stuff… it’s more like we just want to let people know that a bunch of people from the wedding will be meeting at a particular place to grab brunch, relax, chat, etc.
Is it really bad form to initiate the morning-after brunch but expect people to foot their own bill? Of course I wouldn’t send invites for such a thing, but would it be ok to include info about it in the Out of Town bags, as long as it’s not phrased like an invite?
Please give me some insight — and let me have it if this is the rudest thing ever!! It won’t hurt my feelings 🙂