Post # 1
Everytime my friend comes to town, she makes her wedding appts in the moring, like 10. I’m supposed to go because I’m her MOh, but this time I told her could she make her hair trial later in the day becsuse I had to work late last night and I knew my work schedule 2 weeks ahead. So after not hesring from her about the appt I assumed it was later today, nope she texted me after I was already asleep that it’s at 9:30 am. Okay…. It takes me 45 to get to your house and I didn’t get this message till 8:30 when I woke up. Agahshhdnnjengkkf I’m stuck in traffic and really cranky.
Post # 3
@Girasole: You seem to be really going far, faaaaaaaaar beyond what is reasonable for a Maid/Matron of Honor. It’s ok to say no!
Post # 4
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
Why do you need to go to get hair trial? Can’t she just meet you after to show you and bring some pictures?
Post # 5
@Girasole: it’s nice that you are stepping up as a Maid/Matron of Honor but sometimes you need to take a step back especially if it’s impacting you like this. You’re no good to her stressed out.
Post # 6
You are not required to go to her hair trials, just as she is not required to move her appointments to suit you. If it is too early just turn her down, don’t try to get her to change it, unless of course it is something you NEED to be at, like your hair trial or your dress fitting. You don’t NEED to be at hers
Post # 7
Hair trial for her = hair trial for me too. She only comes to town once every 3 months for 5 days, and her weddings in July. I feel guilty saying nooo i can’t come, when I only see her every 3 months lol. Does anyone have that one friend that can only seem to come to town/hang out when there are a million things going on in your life. A week before or a week after would be great. I do tell her my schedule way in advance, but seems like her vacation time falls during my busy weeks. Oh well, she leaves tommrrow and won’t be back till July.
Post # 8
Also, her sister’s been really flaky and even if this wasn’t also a hair trial for me, I would still go. Even though I’m complaining, I would feel sad if I was her and the only one going to wedding appointments. As her Maid/Matron of Honor, I feel like she should rely on me more than usual because I am her Maid. I mean, It doesn’t have to be like that, but I want her to feel special and look back and realize how loved she is