(Closed) Most Horrible Day Ever :-( (Long Rant)

posted 5 years ago in Recaps
Post # 3
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

I am so sorry to hear this. Just remember despite all the bad you married your best friend and that truly is he most important thing here. I am so sorry everything else went up in smoke.

Post # 4
1654 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@GratefulHoops:  The owner isn’t allowed to sue you for slander if that’s what actually happened. She sounds like a complete bitch. I’m so sorry your day didn’t go as planned.


Maybe you could try and get your money back somehow? I’m not very well-learned with legal stuff, but you could maybe start a case with a lawyer.

Post # 5
1502 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ugh that’s terrible!  Keep documentation of everything you can.  It’s only slander if it’s untrue.

Obviously that’s so disappointing.  But just try to remember that you have your amazing husband by your side, and now you get to start your lives together!  Are you taking a honeymoon?  If not, maybe just take a little weekend trip to celebrate finally being married together, and try to concentrate on the positives.

Post # 6
1105 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@GratefulHoops:  It’s not slander if its all true. Just make sure you have some sort of documentation (or a bunch of witnesses) that can prove what you’re saying is true. Remind her also that you have detailed accounts of what was done incorrectly and that if she tries to sue you, she may be the one that ends up giving back money due to many of the items in your contract not being honored (ie. the tables, not enough food).

Post # 7
1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012


I agree that you need to keep documentation! I honestly dont think its slander! People need to know these things! If I were you I would even call the better business bureu! 

Also, Maybe you can have a nice vowel renewal? 

At least you married your dream guy! 

Post # 8
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am terribly sorry to hear about this. 🙁 

Post # 10
1094 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m not even sure what to say other than *HUGSSS*

Post # 11
858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018


Dogs? Why were there dogs there?  I understand that some want dogs at their wedding but it sounds like they are the vendors dogs.

Check all of your legal papers that would involve her to make sure your in the right.  While yes that is all horrible still you don’t want to find out in court that your papers say that she was in the right.  Check your bank to make sure that she did get all of her money.  If you have a friend or relative that’s a lawyer I would talk to that person and see if he/she would be willing to do a quick check over everything to make sure your in the right.  You might have signed an agreement saying you wont say anything bad even if it’s true about her and her business.  If you are 100% legally the right one tell her that if she wants she can take you to court.  If she takes you to court sue her for some of what you paid her.

Post # 12
728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That venue owner sounds like complete trash!

Post # 13
1281 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh God.  My wedding is in 4 days.  I shouldn’t have clicked on this.  

Post # 14
4436 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

This totally sucks- so sorry to hear:(  *hugs*

Post # 15
1161 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@GratefulHoops:  OMG this is so upsetting! I don’t think she can get you for slander if your husband was telling the honest truth about what happened. I can’t believe how unprofessional she was. I would definitely take them to court if your contract was not fulfilled.

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