Post # 107
I would raised my voice and screamed my head out. Most hurtful thing? Hmm, usually “that’s why your exes rather moved away for jobs than fuking stay with you!” Regret? For such situation, no way, never!
Post # 108
@iarebridezilla: Haha this is mine, too! I slapped him once after consuming way too many dollar beers at a hockey game. We were in college and he stranded me at the hockey game and hopped from bar to bar by himself (because we had friends out at several bars) while I searched for him. When I finally found him, I slapped him. We didn’t speak for an entire day after that. So glad those days are behind us!
I have sworn at him before, too. We’ve been together for a long time though so we don’t really fight anymore. If we have a disagreement, we usually discuss it right away. Our communication has improved over the years & we can sense when the other person feels slighted and we are usually able to apologize or correct our wrongdoings pretty quickly.
Post # 109
@BearyLovely: I guess this is more just funny but back when my SO and I were high school we got in a fight and I yelled saying I was going home (I lived like a two hour walk from his house and my phone was dead). I had slammed the dorr and started walking only to come back over, open and slam his door, and shout “Drive me now!”
lol but he started laughing and I ended up laughing too
worst it has ever gotten
Post # 110
@Mischka: I just laughed out loud at this. !!!
Post # 111
I am so glad I found this thread! I think everyone is different, if you and your SO just cuddle and never fight then good for you! And if you and your SO get more heated then I can understand that too.
In the beginning of our relationship my SO and I definitely had some screaming matches (always alcohol fueled…we’ve realized we both turn into assholes when drunk) And after receiving a note on our door from a neightbor requesting we quiet down we stopped drinking so often and have stopped letting our arguments escalate that much. Wake-up call!
We are young (24) and this is my SO’s first serious relationship and my 4th so we’ve both had some adjusting to do in terms of expectations. We’ve gotten a lot better.