Member- princess poolau
- 10 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
had a really long talk with Fiance and he’s commented on how stressed i have become over being such a control freak about everything. he was telling me that everything will be perfect and that i really just need to enjoy this process as i only get to do it once! so rather than stressing, i need to really have fun with it. obviously i agree with what he’s said, but because i only get to do it once, i want everything to be done properly, to 110%, and for our day to be the day i’ve always envisioned. so if i had to choose the most stressful part of planning, it would be in this order:
1. budget (trying to have my dream wedding within our budget)
2. guests (size of wedding getting bigger!)
3. family’s wants vs our wants (super extended family attending vs small intimate, chinese customs vs western w/few customs)
how about you ladies? what’s been the most stressful part of your planning?
