(Closed) mother being too emotional, doesnt want to help me plan anymore :/

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It sounds to me like you really love your mom and she really loves you, and it’s hard on her that she can’t give you a “dream wedding.”

I think you should tell her what you just told us.

Post # 5
Member
22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am going through the same thing. My mom is constantly giving her opinion but offering little to no help. It is taking a toll on the relationship we have

Post # 7
Member
22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

It is and I am sure all you want is her support? I haven’t been able to enjoy my engagement bc of the constant bickering. I even got a second job (now working 60-70 hrs a week) just so we could pay for things on our own and avoid the confrontation. I will be so drained and overworked by the time the wedding comes that I will need Botox to hide the wrinkles lol

Post # 9
Member
22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I agree 100%. Remember that on a blog you will come across all types of brides, poor, middle-class, rich. Some have no help, some have plenty. They will provide their opinions but at the end of the day, they won’t experience YOUR WEDDING. Do what you feel is necessary to have your dream day. Just make sure whatever choices you make won’t be those you later regret.

The topic ‘mother being too emotional, doesnt want to help me plan anymore :/’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors