(Closed) Mother changed her mind about guest list

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i have a very similar situation.  Mum’s family is BATSH*T.  She keeps going back and forth on which ones she wants to invite (i.e. Oh, A can’t come- she’ll ruin the wedding!  fast forward to….well, of course you are inviting A- you can’t not include her!)  I just bit the bullet and invited them all though. I’ll let you know how it turns out lol.  Hopefully not all yours will end up coming?

Post # 4
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Is there room to compromise a little bit?  Could she pick a few people she would like to have there without inviting all the bat shit crazy people too?  Technically, it is your day & if she is not paying then she doesn’t need to have a say, but it’s your mom- ask yourself if this is a hill you want to die on or if there is any room for negotiations.

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