- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So my story is quite long so bare with me hehe.
my mom is the hardest lady to deal with, well ofcourse definetly not the hardest but I think shes pretty tough haha..Basically she hates it when I ask her for her opinion on things, like if im looking at stuff online, and I ask her, she gets annoyed! when I ask her questions about my make up, or just talk to her and tell her new things I learned, trying to share things with her, she gets sooo annoyeddd.. I guess most of the things I talk about is beauty/shopping related because its something im into- but shes really mean about it – the only reason why I brig it up with her is because she never really sits down with me to actually look and browse me, talk to me about things Im intersted about. its always has to do with her- Her and my dad have a very bad relationship, theyve gotten divored but now remarried, and they hate thier lives but are in it for the kids.. shes always complaining bout how her life is so messed up and she uses really vulgar words and what not, I mean I get it- she hates her life but I do too when all i hear is her nagging about how she hates her life. She doesnt understand so much too, It makes me sad, like when it comes to wedding related stuff- she thinks we have to follow other people and their traditions because she wants to fit in. whereas I explain to her, everyone makes up thier own life and traditions as they go.. we dont have to fly off to dubai to buy some plates — becuase its silly lol.. but we hav to be reasonable and not base our lives on other people and their judgement.
And now she is insisting that my fiance buys me a diamond ring ( he got me a white gold ring when he proposed cuz he couldnt afford diamond and gues what, I dont even care cuz im not even into that stuff.. ) but she told him afterwards that she wants him to buy me a diamond ring as part of tradition ( either diamond ring or jewelery set ) — when I told her I didnt care, and how I chose this beautiful ring online from a well known shop in the states ( weve been living in Egypt for a couple of years )- she got mad at me and thew a huge fight, saynig how I want to do thinsg my way and how Gold/diamonds in the state hold no value– and they are cheap and if i were to ever sell it I wont even get much off of it and came up with a stupid story.. Again, I dont care cuz I wont ever sell it and its just a damn ring.. ughh! I already chose the ring – just to make her happy, but I want to get what I chose, even if its from the states because its what I want.
She is so hard to deal with- And everyone has to do what she wants to please her, and shes also diabetic. I am so differnt from her, and I view things from a diff light and perspecctive and she thinks im dumb and useless– she thinks im not being realistic-
She can b so mean to me, and when she goes, oh were best friends- and I do share somethng with her even if its something I dont like about her and I bring it up in the most respectest way she gets so offended, and yells and thows a huge fit— lol
How is your relationship with your mother?? Did you guys do what you want even if your mom was against it and threw fits around?