- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
She has been saying for MONTHS that I NEED to put my bridesmaids in height order. I have them in order of whom I’m closest with. WIth everyone in heels theres really no discernable height difference between two of the girls and the tallest one ended up on the end anyway. Now I get what she is saying about pictures and what not but I have explained for months why my girls are in the order they are in and that I’m not changing it. Yesterday she made another snide comment about it to which I responded with the fact that she needs to let this go!
My mother also informs me yeterday that she told the florist to put the little rhinestones and pearls in my roses in my bouquet. I had specifically said I did not like the way that that looked and I did not want them. She claims that he sent her a pictures and she loves it. AGAIN NOT THE ISSUE. I am not very “its my wedding you have to listen to me” about alot of things at all. However with these flowers there have been so many issues. I asked for a variety of blues (dark to light) with a few pink flowers and one or two white ones for the cetnerpieces. I fell in love with the flowers that they originallt put together, howver mommy dearest wasnt happy and made them remake the flowers into a centerpiece that even the florist said looked like a funeral arrangement from the lack of color. It was all very light blues, very light pinks and white. NOT HAPPY. Eventually the florist listened to me and put something together that we were all happy with. My mom however wasn’t happy with the bouquets I choose for myelf or the bridesmaids and I feel like she went behind my back and told them to do something that I specifically said I didnt want with putting the pearls and rhinestones into the bouquet. I’m upset but there is nothing I can do about it.