- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
So some of you have read about my wedding drama that went on over a year ago. Some of you have not.
I will do a quick recap so we can all catch and I am sorry for the super long poorly written post.
1. my mother in law hates me. She is evil full of poison and intrigue. I like a princess pretend not notice when she attacks me and I play nice.
2. Groomman from Hell: my husband s former exbestfriend. Threw a huge scene before the wedding when he told my husband he needed to open his eyes and not marry me. YES the day of my wedding. And not only that he also had the nerve to show to my wedding and pose for every single picture in the wedding. I should have had him murdered when I had the chance.
SOOOOO here goes my drama sorry guys I am really emotional at the moment.
My Father in Law that I love deeply has a heart condition that has turned really serious in the past weeks and he needs an open chest operation. My Mother in Law was feeling a lot of pressure with Her mom really ill and delicate, her husband in need of a terrible operation, her youngest disfunctional son has no job or I dont even know what he does he is like a big 25 year old…..I suggest out of LOVE and kindness that my Husband should go visit his parents for 10 days before and during the operation. MISTAKE
When I suggested that he go visit his parents ( they live in europe we live in Canada); I told my Husband that I was not going to go. With all that pressure and add me to the equation my Mother in Law would have had a nervous breakdown….so here I am being nice thinking I am so nice and considerate…..I could be in Paris enjoying myself but NOOOO here I am all by self in a Cold Condo.
My mother In law too this time to try to manipulate my Husband and speak trash about me…she also had the audacity to to schedule a Reunion with the Groomsman from hell. To be honest a part of me knew that this would happen and here I am today.
So today my husband went to dinner with a couple who misbehaved at the weeding but they dont qualify as Enemies and guess who Came to dinner……The HOUND of course it is not his fault that he made my husband chose on his wedding day between his wife and Bestfriend…….It is mine for being a bitch.
My blood boils boils boils boils boils boils.
And the friends…they just want things to go back to the way they used to be. OHHHHHH I could just ….
So here is my vent and here are my options
Pretend I dont care and laugh at it
Pretend I dont care and tell my husband if he speaks to this prick I will have him murdered along with his family.
Go to tha spa or hide in the closet.
I feel so powerless. My husband and I are at the best we have ever ever been and everything is so perfect. I just wish he had never gone and that I could keep forgetting what happens. But every time we go see his family or he goes when he comes back it is all fights and drama.And we end up fighting for Months.
I wish I could turn back time and avoid being hurt by all their behaviour and what they all did at the wedding… specially my MIL. But I just cant.
I feel that If I keep letting her play dumb and attacking me all the time she will step over me all the time. At the same time she is my Husband s mom, if my husband felt the way I feel with my Mom It would break my heart.
what should I do? I dont even know if that is a valid Question I dont even know what to tell my husband.