(Closed) Mother Issues

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

If you don’t want your mother involved in your wedding planning (and for a valid reason I think), keep her out of it.  Limit who you tell details to and tell those people you do talk to that you dont’ want anything getting back to your mother.

I’m sorry you’re in this situation right now.  It sounds like it’s gotta be hard to deal with.

Post # 4
Member
762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry to hear about your dilema. I agree with karatechick27 i would keep the details about your wedding planning on the QT. I wouldn’t ignore her, but you need to figure out a way to tactfully avoid her questions regarding the wedding plans, etc. Good Luck and hugs. I am sorry that you have to go through all of that.

Post # 5
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236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Agree’d and agree’d. If you don’t want her to be involved in the planning, don’t tell her details. If you still want to invite her, tell her when and were to be. If she doesn’t come, then you know at least you did your part. Hopefully if she does come, she will have enough respect to be nice since it is after all YOUR day. If she causes a scene, I’d either ask her to leave or have someone else ask her to leave.

Good luck!!!

Post # 6
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1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would say keep her out of the planning, but let her come to the wedding and assign either one of your siblings, or maybe an aunt or an uncle to babysit her during the wedding and make sure she stays out of trouble. Make sure that they, and she are aware that at the first sign of drama, she is out the door.

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