- 6 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
Two years ago when my fiancé and I first got engaged I had asked his sister to be a bridesmaid. Two years later, we both hate each other. I mean, a lot. So now that wedding plans are finally underway and venues booked, I thought that she wouldn’t want to be a bridesmaid. We don’t EVER talk and she makes me feel horrible whenever she is around. Yet when I post my wedding website and she saw that she’s not in the bridal party- she put up a MAJOR stink. I took it back and told her she COULD be a bridesmaid (even though I REALLY don’t want her) and she threw it back in my face and called me everything under the sun. Now, my fiancé’s mother is doing the same. Now both are threatening not to come to the wedding. This is a big deal as my fiancé is from the UK and has only recently moved here and he often gets homesick. I don’t think they understand that if they don’t come to the wedding, they might lose my fiancé. So now we have to think of something to let my future sister in law and mother in law to do in the wedding or else they really won’t come. Oh and they live in the UK too so I’m really stuck. Would appreciate any advice!!