(Closed) Moved out! :(

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7694 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Miss Pez:  I’m sorry.  

When there is a break-up it is hard to think of what might be ahead.  But trust that you will find the one you will be with-who will want the same things in life as you–and that you will heal in time.  

Post # 4
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I can’t imagine how you’re felling, but be strong. Tomorrow always comes, you can get through this.

Post # 5
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4049 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

You made the right choice, but I am so sorry you’re hurting. The right choice isn’t always easy, but the thing is, you’ll heal and you won’t hurt forever. With him you’d always be hurting, so it is best to cut things off now. Stay strong!

Post # 6
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227 posts
Helper bee

The crazy thing about our hearts is they always heal when we leasy expect it. Hold on and know it will get better and the pain will pass don’t try to force it too soon. Cry about it, yell about it, talk about it until you get it out of your system it is all part of the process. You made the right choice for your future happiness, if you had stayed there would always be a part of you that wasn’t happy.

Post # 7
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think, from what you have written in the past. that this is the right move for you.

You deserve to be happy ALL the time, not only sometimes.  You deserve someone who wants a family and a future as much as you do. And you will find another man who makes your heart sing and glow in ways you won’t be able to have even imagined.

Post # 8
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11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Miss Pez:  this will be the most difficult stage of the breakup.  the loneliness.   keep yourself busy. 

before you know it, your pain will turn into happiness and hope.

Post # 9
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9552 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry you’re hurting so much, but it sounds like you made the right decision. GIve yourself somet ime to hurt and then pick yourself up and move on. It’ll get easier. And we’re all send you warm wishes.

Post # 10
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1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I can’t imagine being in your situation… well I am sort of a baby dilemma myself but it’s quite different from yours.

I’m not sure if I want a baby. I am on the fence on that. One day i do the next i don’t. My Fiance has two kinds 9 and 12 that live with us half the time (every other week for a week). Before I met my Fiance i always thought i wanted children. BUt now that I live with them… I am really second guessing it.

If we want to try for a baby he has to go through a vasectomy reversal procedure first, then we have 50% chance of concieving.

Do we do the procedure and then leave it to chance or just not do it ? Cuz I am not sure if I want a baby anymore. Fiance does want one.

I find that I think I would be ok either way because as long as we are together we will tackle it just fine. 

I guess I am lucky in the way that to me it doesn’t matter becasue what if I really wanted one and we couldn’t have one… it would be devastating.

I guess it’s all about the way you feel about it. If you know for a fact that you want a baby and regardles oh him… then you did the right thing.

Post # 12
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46 posts
Newbee

I read your previous post, you’re doing the right thing… it is hard and this meeting is part of the breakup process, seeing those emotions and the pain. It is absolutely wise to have left

Post # 13
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4960 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Reading your last post, I believe you absolutely did the right thing, I know right now you’re remembering the good times and the positive feelings. Just remind yourself why you had to leave. Then one day, when the man of your dreams comes along and you have your baby in your arms, the pain will have all been worth it. 

Post # 14
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227 posts
Helper bee

The anger part comes later. After a bad break up I went through the same thing. I just wanted to be mad at him but I was too hurt. Then months down the line I got angry. It was a process, but I know you can get through it. 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You deserve to be with a man who wants to have a child with you…not just deal with it…and he is out there!  I’m so sorry you’re hurting.

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