(Closed) Moving forward

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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7649 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Don’t rush is the best advice I can give at this point. It is so nice that you are moving on and feel better about yourself.Loving yourself is the first step to being able to enter into a new relationship, even if it isn’t a serious relationship at first.

 

Good luck and I hope you have fun!!

 

Post # 4
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2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Glad to hear things are looking up for you!

Of course, be yourself…also, do NOT talk about your ex. Try to keep the conversation about positive things.

Post # 5
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1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m glad to hear you’re moving on.  Smile

Oh, have fun!  And, don’t think about the date too much.  I’m sure that your date will be nervous, too, so don’t worry. 

Post # 6
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8446 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Glad to hear you’re doing better.  Have fun on your date and enjoy the freedom of being single.

Post # 7
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Packers12:  love your happy update! time heals all.  Have fun tonight!  Don’t rush into another relationship though.  Even if you really like this girl, date around – date a few girls at once, then chose one to be in a relationship with.  After my first bad breakup, I rushed into a relationship with the first guy I wnet on a date with – bad choice!  He ended up being awful.  After that ended, I dated around for a while and tried to learn about what different types of people are out there – it’s the best thing you can do for yourself before jumping into another relationship. Don’t let infatuation get the best of you!

Post # 8
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114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Packers12:  Reading your post made my day! 

I hope the double date went well. Smile 

What worked for me when being set up, or even meeting someone myself, was to think of them as a potential new friend/buddy, instead of my next romantic interest.  Less pressure to impress, easier to ‘be myself’, and less disappointed if sparks didn’t fly.  I’m still friends with some of these guys to this day.

Most important, don’t be in a hurry to find a new relationship.  Enjoy the single life and all the freedom that comes with it!

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