(Closed) Moving In… Fiance seems off…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Just give him time, it’s a big change for him. He is having to get used to not only being away from the only home he knows but living with someone he has never lived with. I remember when my husband and I first moved in together (just dating at that time) and we went through some rough times. Being in each others space is a big change. Make sure he knows he can talk to you about things that are bothering him. Once my husband and I were able to talk to each other about the things that were bothering us it helped so much. It was tough to talk about because we didn’t want to hurt each others feelings but it showed us what we needed to work on to make this thing work.

Good luck!

Post # 4
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2270 posts
Buzzing bee

It has nothing to do with not wanting to live with you. He is just nervous, and this all very new. He is still used to his ol norm-living at home. He will develop a new normal of being at home with you. Just give it some time.

Post # 5
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3092 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I bet he’s worried about finances.  Not saying he’s in a bad situation or that you aren’t helping, but guys are raised to think it is their sole responsiblity to care for the family etc.  So imagine what it’s like to make that first step toward being totally responsible for the ones you love.

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