(Closed) Moving in Sooner Then Planned & I'm Getting Nervous

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think it’s perfectly natural to be nervous, because it is a change, and you are making a sacrifice by giving up your apartment.

That being said, try to go into it with a positive frame of mind, even if it’s hard. You two obviously care about each other and have talked about this, so it wasn’t a spur of the moment thing. Try to take it one day at a time. At least a two bedroom will give you a little extra room.

Best of luck!

Post # 5
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1583 posts
Bumble bee

@waitinginSF:  Totally a personal preference, but that’s is one of the many reasons I won’t live with someone before they commit. It takes some of the uncertainty out of a situation where there is tons of uncertainty.

That being said if you’ve made up you mind to do it, see if you can get on the lease so you can’t just be kicked out if worse comes to worse.

Also, congrtulations and I hope it is a blissful experience.

Post # 7
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2655 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@waitinginSF:  It is totally normal! I freaked out when I moved in with OH. My heating broke and there was terrible snow for a couple of months before that so I was pretty much living there anyway, but it didn’t stop me worrying! I’m aLso bad with change so hated giving up mylovely house! Keep reminding yourself how much you love him and you will be fine :-)))

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