(Closed) Moving in together 7 days before the wedding and people have a problem with it?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

it’s no one’s business but your own. Tell them to remove their noses from a place they don’t belong.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

agree with previous post, it’s not of their business. If that’s what you and your fiance want to do, then so be it. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Just smile and tell them not to worry, you make your Fiance sleep in the backyard.

Seriously, what is wrong with people?! 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Oh goodness, why do people have so much time on their hands or no life to even care what others are doing. I have to much to do in my life to care who moves in with whom. 

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Seriously? It’s none of their business and they need to get over it. You guys made the decision, as a couple, to wait, and wait you will regardless of living together.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@MrsWBS:  +1.

And really, your friends should know better than to bother you about this personal matter a week before your wedding. There’s a million other things you’re already worrying about!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

LOL I’d be scared for you that you’d misplace wedding items like centerpieces or your rings. There are still things I moved 2 years ago and I don’t know where they ended up!

But yea, people shouldn’t be so judgmental. None of their business!

Post # 11
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Busy bee

WHAT?! omg, why do they possibly think it’s ok to intrude on your personal life with your almost husband, and tell you what they think is morally acceptable for you to do with him? the nerve of some people! 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

OMG! Some people need to mind their own bees wax!! Wow!!

Just politely tell them that it is really non of their business what you will be doing (or not doing) in those 7 days.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Seriously?!  Good grief.  I can’t believe that folks are actually saying something to you about it!  You have to do what’s best for you.  My best friend was absolutely determined that there was no way no how ever ever ever that she would move in with a guy before she got married, but you know what, she ended up moving in with her fiance a few months ago (they’re getting married in November) because they couldn’t afford a wedding and two rents.  Everyone has their own reasons/opinions, and you should politely ask them to please respect yours!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You should ask them if then they’ll let you sleep over in their beds, just so you don’t LOSE CONTROL and suddenly jump your Fiance since he now has a sock drawer at your place.  Or better, whether or not they’ll let you come monitor their sex lives and make sure they’re following your standards of decency.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, that’s so silly. People can live together and not have sex. My best friend lived with her Fiance for 18 months because they couldn’t afford two rents and they never had sex. I can’t believe people are giving you a hard time about it a week before the wedding.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Tell them to mind their own business. One thing you are going to learn when you get married is that  EVERYONE ( and their mama) is going to have something to say about what you and your husband do. 

They need to get a life and stay out of yours.

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