- 1 year ago
- Wedding: October 2020
Thank you Bees for your answers, I know it sounds silly that at my age I’m still so afraid of my mom, but that’s how it’s been all my life, but going through all your answers, I’m feeling ready to tell them, they’re on a trip right now, so I’ll use the opportunity to start taking my things out and give them the news when they’re back!
@lovelyruby Yes, that’s what I was thinking, that maybe our relationship would improve if we don’t see each other that often!
@happiekrappie That sound’s so simple but soo hard haha, but yes, that’s probably what I should say and soon.
They’re not paying anything for my wedding, they offered but that’s out of the question, accepting their money will be accepting ALL of their conditions and huge guest list.
@elderbee We’re planning a weddingmoon/elopement to South East Asia, so is more of a vacations thing, we would like to spend at least 3 weeks over there, and neither of us have the days off from work, so we have to wait at least a year to save those days and also because they recommended us to go between Oct-Dec to avoid monsoon season.
@smallbee I totally get the “my real happy life begun”. My parents went on a long trip and I “moved” temporarily with my bf and never been so happy before!
@kmbumbee190618 I know! I’ve been trying so hard not to run away after every fight we have. And yes my fiancé has been very supportive and agrees with whatever I decide, thank you bee!
@SoccerBee86 Haha! I know!! I should’ve moved out long ago, but growing in a conservative house hold, I didn’t know better, I’m used to be the “nerdy/ not problematic” kid. I hope it doesn’t get to the point that they stop talking to me, maybe for a few days if they get really angry, but hopefully they’ll get over it.
@doodlesnflowers that’s a good approach, I’ve stayed some weekends with my boyfriend every now and then, but every time I do that, they stop talking to me for about a week or so.
I guess this is more of a now or never moment! Thanks bee!
@glutton My sister complied with a lot of the things my parent wanted for her wedding and to this date she still regrets a lot of that day, I really hope I never get to be that controlling if I ever get to have kids!
That’s one of the reasons we decided not to have a “traditional” wedding, we’re having a wedding moon/ elopement at Thailand just the two of us. And maybe a small ceremony/ dinner with immediate family if things remain in good terms.