(Closed) moving out – how to tell him?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
25 posts

I think it’s time to move on now.

Post # 47
3838 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Please get out of there, this is a weird unhealthy relationship. NO you are NOT being awful for not wanting to live 7 members of his family! Heck, I wouldn’t even want to permanently live with 7 members of my OWN family! And NO, you are NOT ‘leaving him with his family’. He’s forty-freaking-six, not a child. It’s his own choice to stay there.

I know it’s scary going off in a foreign country alone, but please don’t cling to him just because he is familiar. You can be strong and independent. Cut your ties and you’ll surprise yourself with how much you can achieve by yourself. And maybe you’ll meet someone who actually treats you well and is passionate about you!

You say he is like your ‘family and father and best friend’ all in one… not only is that messed up (your father??) but you are putting way too much importance on him. Go out, make other friends to support you! You can do it!

Post # 48
305 posts
Helper bee

WOW I admire your patience. I think it’s a good decision to leave.

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