Post # 1
Right now my wedding is set for July 20th 2013 but im seriously thinking about upping it to april or january. i always said i wanted at least a year before i got married but me and my fiance aren’t planning a wedding. we are doing what my mom and dad did and we are just signing every thing with my parents and his mom thier and then having a party for the reception. i have never wanted the big flashy wedding and i dont have the money for it. all the money we have saved up for it now is going to vanish because he has to use it to visit his meemaw in AL because she’s dying. i want to push it up but when i said it jokingly he just brushed it off…should i wait til july anyway? even though i really have nothing to plan and just want to be mrs. summerson already?
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
What are the pros and cons of each choice? Is there a reason he brushed you off? With his meemaw dieing he probably isn’t really in the mindset to think about getting married right now.
Post # 4
@juliette.eliza: really the only differance in dates would be moneywise. obviously the farther date will allow me to have more money saved up and that we were thinking about doing something carnivally but im thinking just a plain simple party and spend money on the honeymoon. why would i spend all that money on a wedding i don’t want (his mom does) when i just want to make sure we all have fun. but thinking about his meemaw makes me want to try and make it so she can come but she wont. not unless i had it next week they only give her a month to live