(Closed) Mr. Bees Plan

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Good luck!  You should try and think about what is best for you, since moving in with him might be dangerous if you don’t have a commitment together and no means of support yourself.

Post # 4
Member
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Good for you.
I wouldn’t move in with Fiance until we were engaged, and at first, he thought that I meant I would move in with him if it lead to engagement… he was wrong! when he really got it, it took about two minutes, litteraly, and we were engaged – without a ring, but we went and got one right after..
Hope it works for you!

Post # 5
Member
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

haha that’s what happened with my fi and me. He and I had been dating for only 4 months when I told him I wanted to move back “home” about 6 months later. That pushed him to propose two months later! It was so special and beautiful and perfect.

Good luck with you!!

Post # 6
Member
3587 posts
Sugar bee

I hope Mr.Bees plan works! I think it will because he’ll definately miss you and want you to decorate with him! 🙂 Congrats on finishing nursing school.

Post # 7
Member
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

first, congrats on finishing nursing school! i should be finishing grad school in december so i can relate to the sheer joy. second, i wish you the best of luck with your plan. either way you’re enriching yourself so i hope you get exactly what you hope for. please keep us updated!

Post # 9
Member
2513 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Good lucking implementing Mr. Bee’s strategy! I hope it works for you 😉

Post # 10
Member
322 posts
Helper bee

Best of luck with that plan, and do let us know how it goes…

Post # 11
Member
2765 posts
Sugar bee

Good luck!! And don’t forget to implement the rest of the Backup Plan: to spend time with your girlfriends, to get out of the house doing interesting things, and to invest in yourself and your hobbies!

Post # 13
Member
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I also told Fiance that I would never live with a guy unless we were engaged.  I stuck to my guns, and got my ring. When he proposed he said  he was tired of not being able to be with me everyday.    Out of all his friends, they all have live in girlfriends which they have been with for years longer than us. I am the only one who is engaged, and I firmly believe because I refused to move in together.  The other girls are stuck now just hoping and powerless.  If you are going to commit to this man by relocating and being away from your friends and family, he needs to step up to his side of the bargain.

Post # 14
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545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think you have to do what is right for you and that you are making the right choice.

I agree with your backup plan… if he is not ready to committ then why should you be so far away from friends and family.

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