(Closed) Mrs. Estep is about to cry.. F F F F F F F F dfdshfdshsdfhsdf

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

He went on date on your wedding! Oh my lord. You are better than I, because I would have flipped out. I also wouldn’t carry on a relationship with people who treated me that way.

Post # 4
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so sorry, this all must be terribly painful.  I don’t think that alot of the hurt that you feel is old news at all, no just the oposite.  I think that every stick of the pin is just as hurtful as the first stick.  My dads family is, how to put it nicely, disfunctional at its best.  If you need to talk PM me.  I am always here, day or night.

Post # 5
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I probably would have lost my shit, too.

Post # 6
Bee
6473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

Oh that is big news to take. I’m sorry hon! How frustrating. πŸ™

You are being the bigger person by meeting the new step-mum, but wow.. your dad has some serious explaining to do, in my opinion.

Post # 7
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415 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You’re too nice @Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  you’re just too nice.  I would have ended the relationship after the whole anniversary of their dating being your wedding.  Not cool. 

Post # 8
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5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: *hugs* I’m so sorry, Mrs. Estep. You have every right to be sad/upset. You seem to be giving much more/putting more into this relationship. I understand a bit since my father and his family are, like tks said, disfunctional. I hope that you feel better soon, you’re such a dear on the WB and it’s terrible that your family can make you feel so sad πŸ™ 

Post # 9
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

(hugs) We love you!!

Post # 10
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am so upset that you have this stuff going on!

You are a grown and married women, who is as sweet as pie itself.

I would atleast tell your Dad how you feel, and make sure you choose how much involvement you want in your dads new relationship.

*Hugs and prayers *

Post # 11
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1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

I agree with everyone who has said that you are doing an amazing job of being the bigger person. I don’t think I could be as gracious as you have been. Know that we’re here if you need to vent about this stuff! And I’m sending lots of hugs and good thoughts your way! This whole situation just sucks. 

Post # 12
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m sorry to hear about all that.  You’re so sweet and kind and I don’t like that anyone is hurting your feelings.  >:(

You have every right to be upset and vent all you want.  Bah.  The “PS” especially rubbed me the wrong way, too.

Post # 13
Member
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would be pissed! im so sorry your going through this. Just remember, the people who obviously care about you, were there the day you got married.

Post # 14
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3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m still stuck at the date on your wedding day.  I would totally call him out for that.

Post # 16
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: I found out years after my parents divorced that my dad had cheated and with whom.  His secretary told me two seconds before I fired her ass, I don’t care how long it had been, she had no right to tell my dads personal business, especially to his daughter.  I was still broken hearted and still am.  So I especially understand how things can still be painful no matter how long it has been.

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