(Closed) mutual proposals?

posted 7 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
26 posts
  • Wedding: April 2011

@alejandria:  I think this is a great idea.  After all, it’s a mutual decision to get married, no matter who asks first!  I do not have any experience with mutual proposals to offer,  but I do know all about being engaged to a video gamer.  If you get him an Xbox, could you leave it at a friend/relative’s place, and just wrap up one of the controllers?  Or maybe put one of those 10 or 20-dollar gift cards you can use for downloadable Xbox content into a card and write that the best is yet to come?  Those should be easy enough to hide.

Post # 4
849 posts
Busy bee

Me and my Fiance sort of took turns, he asked me to marry him and I said yes, and he promised he’d get me a ring eventually. A few months later I decided I want to get him a ring too so I re-proposed to him with it. Then a few more months later he got me a ring. But I consider the first time he asked me to be when we got engaged

Post # 5
1730 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

It’s not a proposal on my part, but I plan on getting my Boyfriend or Best Friend a ring he’s been wanting (it’s silly, it’s a Green Lantern ring) for a while for our upcoming anniversary month (never picked a day).  It might be a good spark to lead to maybe discussing a ring for my hand… or it might just be like the watches I’ve gotten him O_o

Men seem to like watches – it’s almost the only ‘jwelry’ they get to wear.  I’ve gotten my SO a couple, and had one engraved with a line from a shared favorite movie a few years back. 

I like the idea of a complimentary gift to go along with the proposal – but it’ so hard since guys want it to be a surprise, and in your case you can’t lug around an Xbox, or even just a controller in your purse indefinietly to each nice dinner along.  😛

Whatever you decide, I’m sure he’ll appreciate it.  Maybe you should make celebratory engagement chicken AFTER he does it, and serve the controller ont he table?

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