(Closed) My Aha Moment…The Last Straw

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Yikes. I’m so sorry. I don’t have any advice really, but ouchie.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Wait, so you guys got engaged without the ring, then he didn’t give you the ring when you were expecting him to, but you guys are still planning the wedding, but now you’re not because he didn’t give you the ring?  I’m confused.  Did you guys talk about it?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

So are you breaking up with him then or resolving yourself to a relationship without marriage? I’m so sorry. What an aweful tihng to happen.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m sorry about that. *Hugs*

Post # 8
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362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow…I am so sorry that you are going through all of this.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so sorry about all this.

All I can say is *hugs*

Do you two ever talk about what happened?

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@BrideofCorn: Have you talked to him about his hangups? Maybe a full blown wedding isn’t right, would he be willing to do a JOP ceremony so you could be husband & wife with out all the hulabaloo? Or is he just unwilling to actually marry you?

*big hugs* to you and stay strong

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

So he said he wanted to marry you, but told you he wasn’t worried about the wedding because he was going through something else? Also he said he wanted to wait on the ring until baby corn was with you?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m confused.  He even told his son he was proposing and then changed his mind at the last minute? 

And what guy gets down on one knee (especially when he KNOWS his gf is expecting a proposal with a box containing a necklace?  That almost sounds intentionally cruel.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@BrideofCorn: I commend you for being so strong. Esp being in the relationship for 6yrs and having that amazing attachment to his son. This can’t be easy.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@BrideofCorn: oh I see.  Good for you for standing up for yourself!  I’m sorry to hear you had to go through this, but it’s all upwards from here, right?

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