(Closed) My Aunt just got a new ring– same setting as my engagement ring!

posted 7 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Would it bother you that your aunt got your engagement setting for herself?

    Not at all- ultimate complement!

    Kinda Weird, but whatevs

    Yes, it would bother me

    Other, comment below

  • Post # 32
    7426 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I’d probably be upset. If it was someone I didn’t really know, it wouldn’t bother me though.

    Post # 33
    1990 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @HeartsandSparkles  hmm its pretty so I can appreciate wanting it too… like you, she saw somehting she liked and went and got it.

    I don’t think its all that strange – Its nice really!  She loved it that much!  

    Be proud that you have a pretty ring too and its still slightly different 🙂

    Post # 34
    1228 posts
    Bumble bee

    Very weird… but rise above and be the better person!

    Post # 35
    633 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    It’s weird, but I wouldn’t let it bother me…for long, anyway. But if you think of your aunt as someone who is always wanting attention, then I could see why it would bother you. I can’t really relate b/c I adore both of my aunts, and would think it was super cute that we had matching rings, and would probably take pictures of them together.

    Post # 36
    1877 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @HeartsandSparkles  I would understand finding it weird if you had a really unique ring or something custom made, but your ring is a very classic, normal style.  I think it is a compliment that she likes the classic style of your ring and found it so beautiful that she wanted one.  I’d feel very complimented and not at all offended. 

    Post # 37
    344 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I would personally be upset, but I probably wouldn’t say anything. Imitation is a compliment but an engagement ring is a piece of jewelry that represents the commitment you and your partner have. I feel that that is not okay, she should have asked you first. There is nothing really you can do about it now except be gracious. If she then goes and gets the same car as you or the same haircut…… Serious problem

    Post # 39
    1837 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    it wouldn’t bother me at all, really. i guess i might think it was a little strange depending on which aunt it was/my relationship with them lol

    Post # 40
    253 posts
    Helper bee

    I am sure you guys dont hang out together that often to which it would be an issue LOL. It’s kind of annoying and would irk me a little, but it’s funny also. 



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