(Closed) My bachelorette party is going to be lame…

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 32
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

With your attitude, it sounds like a good idea to cancel it and destress on your own.  No one forced these people to go to the bachelorette, so they clearly wanted to be there.  Your Maid/Matron of Honor was upset and venting that people weren’t staying in the hotel, not trying to ruin the night.   If you have such a nasty attitude, of course it won’t be fun.

Post # 33
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@abbie017:  Agree. 

Post # 35
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think you should ask your Maid/Matron of Honor to stop venting about the planning process to you.

Maybe I’ll get flamed here, but I think your attitude is exacerbating this situation.  You’re expecting to not have fun so of course you aren’t looking forward to it.  You’re assuming that people feel obligated to come, and if they do come and see your attitude, they’ll probably not have fun either. 

Post # 38
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

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@coffeegal85:  She definitely should quiet down, but I do understand that it’s hard.  Especially in my case, I know all the other girls that are coming, except this one.  So I have to keep hinting to my sister, “heyyy so can you ask AnnoyingGirl if she saw my email?  Ummmm, can you ask her to sort of respond?” without sounding like I’m b*tching. 

Post # 39
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

YOu sound ungrateful. With an outlook like that you will ruin the party by being a party pooper. Everyone doesn’t need to be wasted to have fun. It seems like a nice event, be grateful for yoru friends coming and try to be nice about it.

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@coffeegal85:  My Maid/Matron of Honor has something similar planned. The problem with that is we don’t really drink and the best man is underage.

Post # 41
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Well if noone wants to go do what i did. My Maid/Matron of Honor didnt do anything for me instead my brother and his fiance which were my bridesmaid and groomsman did a bachelor and bachlorette party together and we tons of fun. We only hit one club and it was just spent with close friends and two of my bridesmaid didnt show up or the moh but we still had fun with the guys. Relax 🙂

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sounds like a fun night to me. At least you are having a night out with your girls! I’m not even having a bachelorette party.

Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It’s all about your attitude hun, no one can make you enjoy yourself but you. I’m sure your sister cares enough for you that she was trying to plan something fun for you and not try and ruirn it for you by saying people suck. 

My bachelorette party will consist of Me, Maid/Matron of Honor, possibly 2 of my closest friends from HS and a cousin and her mom going out to dinner and possibly going to a bar afterward for a few drinks and then home. 

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