Post # 17
Wow. Um, okay. I usually lurk, but I just wanted to say that you’ve been given some really good advice, though I’m not sure you’re listening to it.
Calling your friend a b*tch because she’s not as excited as you think she should be is….not cool. As some one else on this thread already very wisely stated, no one will be as excited about your engagement as you. And you’re not even engaged yet, so I would slow your roll just a bit. It’s the holidays, I’m sure she’s busy and when things settle down and you become official, she’ll be there for you. So just chill for now. There’s plenty of time to be excited once you’re officially engaged.
Post # 18
No, you aren’t engaged yet, but hell, she could have faked being excited that he did this for you. I mean, I get she MAYBE could not want you to get your hopes up,(who knows with a one word comment to you?) but the last person tampling all over you getting excited should not be someone who you want as a maid of honor. She could have at least said, ” cool! The ring is very pretty!” Wouldn’t have taking up too much of her time.
I have a 1 yr old and yes, super busy, but I make time for friends if they have something important to tell me.
Post # 19
thanks @MsMamaBear, that makes me feel better. she has just been real distant lately, doesnt really want to talk to me, everytime i try to call or txt or instant message im ignored, so to the rest of you its not that im not listening to you, but she is outright ignoring me now..so i dont know, im not trying to get defensive but i should have stated this fact as well
Post # 20
I’ve been through something similar in just the last day or so, even though I am recently engaged. Apparently, no one really truly knows what goes on between you two except for you two and not everyone will be positive about your happiness.
My Fiance was a procrastinator so I can understand why you’d be excited! If I were your friend, I would at least pretend that to be excited. She’s engaged and she would have been upset if you did that to her at this stage I bet.
Sorry you’re going through this. (((hugs))) Just focus on your upcoming engagement and enjoy your life.