(Closed) My best friend to my worst enemy

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Woah, spacing and paragraphs please?? Totally rambly and I can’t even make anything out.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

You did not steal her thunder. She should be happy for you.

 

Is this the first time, she has acted weird?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

she’s toxic – cut her out of your life for a while and see what happens. either she’ll come back to make amends for her bitchy behavior or you’ll finally be rid of a crappy friend.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

dp

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

any person that leaves numerous abusive phone messages on your phone is not a friend

i think you need to cut this toxic person out of your life

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

… don’t take this the wrong way. But can I ask how old you guys are? Age range?

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@ClaireKitchens: Age has nothing to do with it. Jealousy is jealousy at any age. If she is making you and your fiance fight, making you miserable, and bad-mouthing you to friends then I say she is toxic. Whether you choose to cut her out is your choice, but I know in your place I would.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

She sounds like my so called “best friend”.. she and I haven’t spoken in about 4 or 5 years so she doesn’t even know about my engagement or anything but she accused me of something equally as ludicrous back then and at that very moment  thought to myself, if this is what she thinks of me, or thinks I would do then clearly our friendship isn’t what I thought it was.

I moved on from that friend (after 18 years of friendship and the last 10 or so being walked all over by her) and haven’t looked back at all. I totally agree with the previous bee, TOXIC.. you don’t need it.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If she is causing fights in your relationship, get rid of her. Flat out tell  her she has changed enormously since getting engaged and that this friendship is not working. You did not steal her thunder. If you were such great friends in the first place, she would have been excited that her best friend got engaged near when she did so you can do wedding stuff together!

Can you block her phone number? She has to stop calling you like a nutcase.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

She is not acting like a friend. AT ALL. She is verbally abusive, she is causing fights with  your Fiance. I think you should end it before anything else happens. 

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