Post # 1
And my Fiance is being a total a$$ about me spending so much time with him. Its really making not want to be around so I am spending even more time with my bff and his family. I really don’t understand what the problem is, ever time I cry even like one little tear he tells me its childish I need to stop crying. He says I’m not family I don’t need to be spending so mch time with them and I’m really frustrated he is pushing me away and he doesn’t believe me when I tell him that. What do I do from here?
Post # 3
Oh my, I’m so sorry. I think your Fiance may just be a little bit jealous right now, especially that you’re spending time with another guy. Just give it time. No way he should expect you to NOT symphatize for your friend’s loss. That’s definately a difficult time for him and family.
Post # 4
Well…. are you spending too much time with him? Yes, it’s a tragedy and being supportive is what you need to be doing, but you dont need to spend all your time with him. I know that in his place, I would want some alone time to sort through my own thoughts and emotions.
Post # 5
I’m kinda going to have to second zippy on this one. I mean, yes, you should definately be there to support your friend at this difficult time, but you do have to draw a line between what is supportive/healthy & what might be potentially damaging to the relationship with your Fiance.