(Closed) My big, opinionated mouth got me in trouble tonight :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

Hey, a simple apology can get you a long way in life.  Hopefully your Fiance wasn’t too upset!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

no one over the age of 21 should be pole dancing or dancing on a bar

i thought in the US you had to be over 21 to be in a bar or club (that would have a pole).  my niece pole dances (at a gym), she started when she was 16 while attending a private caltholic girls school – she has killer abs & tone

you’ve apologized, give him some space – we all have bad days

Post # 7
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Helper bee

why does he care that you care that someone on facebook posted about pole dancing? 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Also, I’m curious for arguments sake….is making out with a girl in a bar for attention better, worse, or the same as pole dancing? 

2 girls making out for the guys attention?   not something ive thought about to be honest

Post # 10
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Helper bee

oh ok.  he thinks you’re being judgmental of his friend. girl or guy? 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Eh, I guess I’m immature then ๐Ÿ˜‰ Our favorite local bar has a pole in front of the band stage and we all frequent it. It’s not for attention; it’s bc we are having fun with our girlfriends. And yes Darling Husband loves it. ๐Ÿ˜‰ But to each their own. I think it was a little judgemental of you but hey we’ve all been that way from time to time. You apologized, he should move on. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh I wasn’t offended; it’s hard for me to be. I was only joking about the immature part.  I understand your point I do. Trust me, I thought I’d be the last person to do it bc I’m known as being shy and conservative. However my friends are different and bring out a fun side in me and we usually make a fool of ourselves. Yea I’d probably keep that from coworkers though, it makes things a little awkward.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

eh, we all make judgments! live and learn ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ve read all these posts and I’m still confused as to why you owe him such a massive apology! We all have our opinions. You can express them…if he doesn’t like it, he can calmly choose to disagree!

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