(Closed) My BM is killing me… Too rude, I think?! (kinda long)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

You definitely aren’t asking too much! It sounds like you’re asking the bare minimum from her and she just won’t do it. Is it too late to ask her to not be in the wedding anymore?

Post # 4
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Maybe you could buy it for her and she could pay you back on weekly installments or something? I’m sure you two could figure out a way to make it work. It’s disappointing that even though she knew when you were going to go shopping she didn’t make an effort to set some money aside, but why not ask how much she has, and suggest you cover the rest and she can pay you back over time. I’m sure it’s embarassing to her too, I wouldn’t be too hard on her. Who knows, maybe you’ll find a great sale on this weekend and it will go better than you expected!

Post # 7
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Irisj89: Aww :(, that is sad! It sounds like you’re a really good friend, though, I think I wouldn’t be as kind about it as you :). Could you just have her pay it back in installments?

Post # 8
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

How strongly do you feel about having both bridesmaids wear the same dress? Maybe you could look at clearance dresses with her? That way she could still look nice, but spend less money.

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