(Closed) my BM ruined their gifts!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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188 posts
Blushing bee

well it’s not ruined because they haven’t seen it, and they don’t know about the robes. Plus, after being a multiple time bridesmaid, I think they were just trying to plan ahead with their jewelry. I think you should be happy that they cared about what they were wearing on your wedding day! 

Post # 4
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I have a similar thing with my Maid/Matron of Honor. She knows I’m making all our jewlery. She came over to the house the other day and saw what I was searching for on the internet. She actually squealed! She loves Fleur de lis, and I was looking for a sivler one for her necklace. Surprise ruined…lol

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I found some headbands that i would love to get to my girls But i forgot my little sister was over and she totaly saw what i was wanting to get lol…

But I have to say it actually helped because she loved them too and now i know even more that it was a great idea…

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

i decided to tell my BMs well in advance that i got them jewelry so they wouldnt go out and buy their own.  i did also get them sarongs which they didnt know about until we got to jamaica and they liked alot,

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Mine know part of theirs as I told them. I don’t care if they know or not.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I was thinking about getting my girls necklaces, but got them pashminas and tote bags instead. I told them I wasn’t getting them jewelry so they knew to wear their own

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