(Closed) My BM’s fair-weather BF is a drunk!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Just let her know that you have limited space and this late in the game, you just cannot add anyone else.

Post # 4
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242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Tell her no.  She already said she didn’t need a +1, tell her you’re tight on space and you’ve got everything planned for your guest list as is, making any adjustments at this point would be impractical.

If you don’t want him there, he doesn’t need to be there.  This is your day, I’m sure she’ll understand especially since she already said she didn’t need a +1 AND you’re short on space.

Post # 5
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2634 posts
Sugar bee

She is one of your BM’s.  If feel that in and of itself entitles her to a plus one.  This isn’t some random 3rd cousin, this is someone who you love enough to have asked her to celebrate this day with you as part of your wedding party.

I’m sorry you don’t like him, but thankfully you aren’t marrying him!

Post # 6
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1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Hey you’re doin ok here, most people are being at least a wee bit dishonest when they say they don’t have the space for the plus one, you can have a clear conscience about saying it. Just tell her simply.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

PS – if that is your dress in your profile pic – we’re dress twins!

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