(Closed) My boyfriend faked proposed to me :(

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Philadelphia, PA

This guy does not deserve you. His fake proposal was just cruel, but at least you found out all of this now instead of wasting more time and energy on him. 

Post # 18
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

The guy hasn’t even given you BIRTHDAY presents over the last few years?!  He sounds like a thoughtless jerk.  Leave him!

Post # 19
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3208 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Walk away and do not look back. Do NOT give him a third chance.

Post # 20
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Newbee

I don’t know you or him. You obviously love him a lot; but he should make you feel awesome and I’m not seeing that. I know you’ll make the right decision to stay with him or leave him, and it’s yours to make. Does he respect you? That’s the most important thing, to me at least.

Post # 21
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2004

Please leave him.  I know it is hard to breakup/leave, but being single is better than being with a person who will do things to hurt you.  He is a nasty person.  He has no integrity, “I just told you what you wanted to hear”.  The fact he made you a joke to his friends is so disrespectful.  He has stopped giving you gifts and moved away.  He will leave you the moment he finds something better or you become difficult. 

Post # 22
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Time to go honey. This relationship’s going nowhere & you deserve someone who will give you everything you deserve & more. Don’t let the fear of losing the one you think is the love of your life hold you back. He isn’t the one!

Post # 23
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@maria4444:  I’m trying to remember that boys can be stupid sometimes, but that’s more than stupid, that’s downright cruel.  He knew you wanted a commitment and he dangled one out in front of you, then made fun of it in public.  I’m sure this man has some excellent qualities that have won you over and we just don’t know them, but knowing only this one thing makes me want to say leave him, and punch him in the face on the way out.  Virtual hug from me to you, so sorry you’re hurting hon!!

Post # 24
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Sorry that he is such a jerk.  The fact that he jokes with his friends about it and says its a “joke proposal” confirms.  He’s inconsiderate and you shouldn’t waste any more time on him.  He will not suddenly become more considerate or caring, and does not deserve you.  Better to leave and chalk it up as a learning experience now than to waste more time with this idiot.

Post # 25
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2004

I’m sorry you are going through this.  Being taken for granted is one of the worst things I can think of in a relationship, and it seems like that is what he is doing – taking for granted that you will always be there to meet his needs.  You gave him ample opportunity to fix this, and he clearly has chosen not to.  It has got to hurt to end a four-year relationship, and I don’t envy you, but if you stay with him, he will continue on like he is and leave you feeling miserable.  There’s nothing on this earth to make you deserve that.  Kick him good-bye and take some time to heal. 

 

 

Post # 26
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t know why you’d want to be with him after that. Time to move along.

Post # 27
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

That’s awful!  I have to agree, this guy shows no respect for you at all.

He sounds terrible.  You can do much better.

 

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Screw that shit. Leave.

Post # 29
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366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

That is not an ok thing for him to do. He sounds selfish and immature. I think you should leave.

Post # 30
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

It won’t be difficult for you to find someone who treats you better. Get out now. He doesn’t respect you.

My ex did this to me with a Christmas gift (never received it), and I felt upset and jerked around.. it still makes me mad when I think of it 7+ years later. I can’t imagine if he did this with a proposal.

Leave him!

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@maria4444:  Leave

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