Post # 47
You really need to dump that zero, he’s playing around with your feelings with a fake proposal, no birthday, anniversary, or holiday gifts. He has major issues with in himself and you shouldn’t have to deal with it. I would of been kicked his but to the curve, getting engaged is not a priority to him.
Post # 48
It’s going to feel like you wasted 4 years of your life on him, but leave him. You’ll find someone so much better that you’ll wonder why you stayed with the jerk.
Post # 49
wow a fake proposal is way worse than none at all.. kick his sorry but to the curb, because any guy who’d do that, then walk around bragging about it clearly isnt ready for adult commitment, and you should go out there and find a guy who will treat you right 100% of the time, not just when you’re about to dump him. good luck!
Post # 50
WTF? I’m sorry …. But how old is this guy?
Post # 51
If he laughs about you and at your expense with his friends about this then he is such a jerk. You deserve someone who cannot wait to marry you and spend the rest of their life with you.
Post # 52
@maria4444: OMG im so sorry! That is so mean!! I don’t know if I would go as far as telling you to leave him (obviously only you two can understand your relationship) buuuuut I would be extremely hurt. He sounds very immature and inconsiderate.
Marriage and moving in together should never be solutions to a problem. They should happen because you are in a very good place relationship wise. You are happy and ready to take the next step.
Have you two talked about planning yet? How does he react when you bring it up?
Post # 53
That is horrible. You do NOT deserve that. You deserve someone who will treat you right and will want to marry you and buy you a ring. I hate to say it, but you need to leave him. You deserve respect.
Post # 54
That’s a dick move. I’d be livid. He sounds immature. You two need to have a real conversation and clear this up once and for all. Personally, I’d bail.
Post # 55
@maria4444: Did you leave him yet?
Post # 56
That’s really mean. Leave him. If you had already thought about it, and he did this to you…yeah, just go.
Post # 57
- Wedding: October 2014 - Restaurant
I had a boyfriend like that once too. Didn’t remember my birthday even though I mentioned it numerious times. After I was crying on the phone, he came over to wish me happy birthday, then went out afterwards without me! He never appreciated anything I did for him, would tell me he didn’t like the nice dinners I cooked for him, would invite me for the night and then tell me I had to leave when something came up. Just typing this out I can’t believe that I put up with it.
When I finally broke up with him after too long, I was sooo happy and free. I met my now boyfriend two months later, and this man does so much for me and is so thoughtful I have to tell him to cool it sometimes!
The point is, you deserve better.
Post # 58
2 words, DOUCHE BAG . you deserve better.
Post # 60
@maria4444: I’m really sorry, but it doesn’t sound like he gives two craps about your relationship. You clearly know that things aren’t right, and said yourself you wanted to break up with him before, so why would you want to be engaged to him in the first place?
Post # 61
@maria4444: omg….how can someone who loves you do that!!! if my guy ever did something that stupid..wow, the fur would fly!!!!!