(Closed) My boyfriend never offers to pay

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 106
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394 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - Emerald at Queensridge

Girl, what about this makes you think he would be a good husband? No reason to date this immature asshole. 

Post # 107
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1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think this is the first time I’ve seen the bees 100% in agreement.   Run girl.  Run fast.

Post # 109
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Everyone here believes you deserve better. A 7 month relationship is not very long to walk away from. However, no amount if advice is going to help you if you make excuses for choosing to stay in your relationship. If you ignore us, that’s fine, we’re internet strangers. If you ignore your gut and allow someone to undervalue you, that’s on you.

Post # 110
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211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Guys who werent my bf have offered to pay for more for me than this guy. 

 

RUN.

Post # 111
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1603 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

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mssoontobe :  SAME! Heck, guys who are FRIENDS have offered to pay for me more than this guy. 

Post # 112
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1470 posts
Bumble bee

You sound like you have very low self esteem because a) you haven’t said anything to that cheap ass yet; and b) you keep defending him here.  I feel sorry for you.  You’re either going to stick it out and waste a bunch of your life or hopefully wake up and realize he’s in the wrong.

Post # 113
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Helper bee

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janerodriguez :  he’s nice n caring but mean when he’s having argument! Girl u will have a lot of argument /discussion in a life time n he’s going to be mean all that time, will u be okay? Plus if he’s so mean now, how mean will he be later!

we split our bills but neither my SO nor me will ask for $6 or even $60 for the food even if one of us paid. your post 29, he’s disrespecting you on so many levels, pls dont be okay with that. You are so young , u ll find plenty of nice men. Listen to this, if u are okay with this for life then that’s okay but don’t expect him to change later cuz he will not. don’t waste your time on this guy cuz college is the place where you will get a chance to meet the most eligible guys, once you leave college it’s difficult to meet so many eligible guys. So pls don’t waste ur time. 

Post # 114
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Helper bee

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janerodriguez :  Post 108, when there are doubts it a no go! N U are having doubts for a reason. That’s your gut feeling. 

Post # 115
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5974 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

You are very young and have lots of time to meet someone great in the future. The problem isn’t your boyfriend, it’s your EXTREMELY low self-esteem. You need help fixing your own issues and finding ways to value yourself and demanding better treatment for yourself. Until you fix these issues,  you will always stay with abusive losers because you don’t think you can do better. Good luck.

Post # 116
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209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I would tell him I hit the lottery and I would have given to him if he had given to me, and then walk out. Evil…I know. 

Post # 117
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6337 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

I would go home for good.

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