my boyfriends annoying kids!!!

posted 2 years ago in Beehive
Post # 2
1606 posts
Bumble bee

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blue792 :  Well, him and his 4 kids come as a package. There’s no detaching there. 

As for his parenting style, I think you’ve already covered that by talking to him about it. If he’s saying that to you he obviously doesn’t feel that there’s a problem. If he isn’t willing to consider changing and looking at his parenting then there isn’t much more you can do here. It will be up to you on whether you are ‘ok’ with how it is or this situation isn’t right for you. 

Post # 3
9012 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

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blue792 :  Dump him and date men with no kids.

Post # 4
2917 posts
Sugar bee

Just tell him you think his kids are “so freaking annoying” and “the worst”. Then he can dump you, and you won’t have to be around his “obnoxious” kids anymore. 

Post # 5
434 posts
Helper bee

Girlfriends are replaceable, children are not.

So, if you can’t stand his kids, and he won’t change how he disciplines, you’ll be the one who has to go, not them.

Post # 6
1095 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

You should not be in a serious relationship with a man if you hate his children.  Every single person involved in that mess will end up miserable.  Call it off.

Post # 7
7028 posts
Busy Beekeeper

He has already told you that he is not going to change his parenting style for you. What do you do? You move on. They are his kids and they’re not going anywhere.

Post # 8
125 posts
Blushing bee

At least you said you don’t want him around, not you don’t want them around.

You obviously know what to do.

Dump him. 

Post # 9
2328 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Have your own babies with him obviously. That will help heaps 

Post # 10
9127 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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blue792 :  Sorry, sounds like you need to find a new boyfriend with no kids. 

Post # 11
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2018


Post # 12
712 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2021 - Dracut, Massachusetts

uhhh… don’t date a man who has kids???

Post # 13
534 posts
Busy bee

What do you expect him to do? Throw his kids in the trash?

Post # 14
6348 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

Move on.  It will be best for all of you.

Post # 15
3251 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

You to end this relationship. His children & him are a package deal.

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