Post # 1
So, this is the deal.
my boyfriend has 4 kids who are so freaking annoying and just the worst. Loud, obnoxious, getting into things-no discipline!! I love him but if he’s not going to control his kids, I don’t want him around. We’ve talked about this and he said I’m over stepping my boundaries. What do I do??
Post # 2
Well, him and his 4 kids come as a package. There’s no detaching there.
As for his parenting style, I think you’ve already covered that by talking to him about it. If he’s saying that to you he obviously doesn’t feel that there’s a problem. If he isn’t willing to consider changing and looking at his parenting then there isn’t much more you can do here. It will be up to you on whether you are ‘ok’ with how it is or this situation isn’t right for you.
Post # 3
Dump him and date men with no kids.
Post # 4
Just tell him you think his kids are “so freaking annoying” and “the worst”. Then he can dump you, and you won’t have to be around his “obnoxious” kids anymore.
Post # 5
Girlfriends are replaceable, children are not.
So, if you can’t stand his kids, and he won’t change how he disciplines, you’ll be the one who has to go, not them.
Post # 6
You should not be in a serious relationship with a man if you hate his children. Every single person involved in that mess will end up miserable. Call it off.
Post # 7
He has already told you that he is not going to change his parenting style for you. What do you do? You move on. They are his kids and they’re not going anywhere.
Post # 8
At least you said you don’t want him around, not you don’t want them around.
You obviously know what to do.
Post # 9
Have your own babies with him obviously. That will help heaps
Post # 10
Sorry, sounds like you need to find a new boyfriend with no kids.
Post # 12
- Wedding: January 2021 - Dracut, Massachusetts
uhhh… don’t date a man who has kids???
Post # 13
What do you expect him to do? Throw his kids in the trash?
Post # 14
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
Move on. It will be best for all of you.
Post # 15
You to end this relationship. His children & him are a package deal.