My boyfriend's ex is viewing my Instagram stories

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 46
542 posts
Busy bee

radlace :  

I don’t blame you for suspecting that your boyfriend’s ex played a part in your breakup. 

The timing is way too coincidental. 

Please don’t think that you were wrong for feeling annoyed by her stalking. Her actions were unsettling. 

Post # 47
6091 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Damn- that took a turn. That sucks, Bee. I’m sorry to hear that. Take good care of yourself right now.

Post # 48
11777 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Or maybe he broke up with her in the same way, out of the blue, and she’s checking your feed to try to make sense of it all. 

He sounds off, frankly. So while I’m sorry you’re going through this, I suspect you will be better off. 

Post # 50
906 posts
Busy bee

lyfe_girl :  you cannot see who has viewed your posted IG pics but you can view who has seen your 24 hour IG Story. It’s like Snapchat. 

Post # 51
2826 posts
Sugar bee

That’s definitely not what I was expecting, I’m sorry bee!

It does sound like he’s got commitment issues and honestly, being in a relationship with someone with commitment issues/difficulty talking about their feelings is EXHAUSTING. It’s a constant game of two steps forward one step back (or several, really). It will likely be for the best in the long run. 

Post # 52
9608 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

radlace :  good for you for knowing even now that you need to be strong and tell him to beat it when he tries to come back!  Stay strong!

Post # 54
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

radlace :  2 things 

1. She may not actually be searching for you and looking at your stories. It happened to me twice with my FI’s ex who I have no interest in. On the front page of insta where stories and updates are displayed, some are ‘based on people you follow’. If you view the first story on the list it moves on to the next and the Next until you exit. On 2 occasions his ex’s story has been there in the mix and I’ve viewed it totally by accident. She has a public profile and they still follow eo so it happens. I am now more careful ha. 

2. You can’t be certain either way so if it bothers you, that’s what the block button is for… it. 

Post # 55
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

radlace :  so sorry! Only just seen your update! So wasn’t expecting that! Stay strong! Hugs bee xx 

Post # 57
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

Edit: I didn’t read far enough into the thread before replying 😣 I’m sorry it went belly up, that was a plot twist from the original post.

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