(Closed) My boyfriend's family hates me

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 91
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Hogarths, Solihull

I’m really confused. 

I thought he broke up with you? He’s definitely been downgraded from Fiancé to ‘boyfriend’ by the look of things…

Now, we all have our fair share of fights in a relationship but this just seems to be all fights. I know you said you won’t leave him… can I ask why?

Not in a judgmental way, I just want to try and understand what about this relationship makes you happy? Is it worth putting up with all this shit for that?

It sounds, to me, that you are both a little immature and have both made mistakes. That’s ok, but the important thing is learning how to move on from that. It doesn’t seem like you guys have mastered that part and, while I feel like you *could* save this relationship, I want you to have a good hard think about how you would BOTH do that and whether it is worth the effort.

In life, you either break up with your partner or one of you dies. Those are your only two options for a relationship. It might do you well to reflect on that and how it affects your day to day life.

Good luck Bee – I sincerely hope that you manage to find a new ‘path’ as per your poster and only you know what the right one for you is. 

Post # 92
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

This is what happens when small children try to play grown up. 

Post # 93
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Honey Beekeeper

 This thread has run its course. We’re closing now for review. Thanks!

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