(Closed) My bridal shower this weekend Friend showed up 3 hours late :(

posted 3 years ago in Guests
Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Okay, so how are you going to approach her for reimbursement?

Post # 34
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

jennmariee :  I would be the same… I would just not pay it, the resteraunt cant charge you for extras ordered by party crashes and can not add to your tab without confirmation – id send the resteraunt after them for reimbersment

Post # 35
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Busy Beekeeper

Late? No gift? Oh well. 

Why did the restaurant allow them to order what they did and accept their word that the hosts would pay, without then checking with the hosts? The restaurant could have shut it down right there. 

Ordering $250 worth of food/drink at a bridal shower and sticking the bride with the bill? So wrong. How does this fit with your prior experiences of this person and her family? And are you going to approach her? 

Post # 38
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7371 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Fuck her. Selfish ass. This isnt a loss.

Wow. The utter nerve. 

Focus on your real friends OP. 

Post # 38
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Busy Beekeeper

Fuck her and her selfish ass.

This is not a loss. Focus on your real friends. 

Post # 40
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1995

VintageGirl1020 :  Do you know her mother well enough to contact her?  That is terrible.  I can’t believe they stuck you with the bill.  

Post # 41
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

She’s a fucking bitch. Bringing a group of uninvited people (including her DAD) to your shower super late, ordering a multi course feast, sticking you with the bill, and treating you like the crazy person when you brought it up. 

The friendship is over — send her the link to this thread. 

Post # 42
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

VintageGirl1020 :  but they werent guests… you said she brought a whole bunch of uninvited people thats the definition of ‘crashing’

 

and its the resteraunts job to varify EVERYTHING

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