(Closed) My Bridesmaid- everything on her terms…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Personally?? I think she sounds like a bitch and is jealous as all hell.

Some one unsupportive like this is not the best person to stand with you on your wedding day.

(I had bridesmaid issues of my own when I got married, and trust me, if I could go back I would have kicked this one woman to the curb.)

Post # 5
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2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

There is nothing funny about boudoir pics, I bet they were stunning!

 

My Bridesmaid or Best Man ( not my maid of honor, who ROCKED my world, and is awesome)

1)  Continually tried to style me the way she wanted for the wedding, (NO YOU CANNOT WEAR THAT!!!)

2)  Kept talking about how ‘hot’ she was going to look.

3)  Stated that if she was a size 14 (12 american) she would kill herself, (when dress shopping with me, a size 12, nd Maid/Matron of Honor a size 18)…

4)  Got drunk and sang kareoke at my wedding without consulting me.

5)  Lapdanced my uncle in front of his wife,

6)and then lastly slept with my brother as she knew it would piss me off.

Suffice to say we don’t speak now. She was an embarrasment to herself. It was still the best day of my life- I married a great man and ditched a friend that was an enemy in disguise!!

With your Bridesmaid or Best Man tell her about your fears and concerns, if she does not appear to validate them or listen maybe you do need to cut her, if she takes it on board you have a platform to work from.

Hugs, I know how stressful planning can be! T

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