(Closed) My Bridesmaid told the groom!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 32
535 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you have every right to be a bit angry and annoyed, but I don’t think it ruined anything. He now only knows the color, so he will be surprised with everything else about the dress!

Post # 33
591 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My dress has a black sash and my Mother-In-Law blurted out that detail in front of my fiance.  I got really upset.  She has a history of not being able to keep her trap shut.


However, I’ve since gotten over it.  Fiance hasn’t seen the actual gown, so it will still be a surprise!


Hang in there – I totally get how you feel!

Post # 34
2050 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@blueflowers:  Can you play it off like she was talking about a “that blue *bridesmaid* dress” and then surprise him that it was *your* dress after all? Just a thought. Otherwise, let time pass on this one and don’t bring it up again. Also, I too, would love to see a photo of your dress as I love that color. Would love to see it when you’re ready to post!

Post # 35
504 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ah that stinks, but it’s just a dress and I’m sure your bridesmaid feels terrible about it. Besides he’s still going to be shocked seeing it on you. YOU HAVE TO POST IT. I adore colored wedding dresses and a lavendar one is soooo unique!

Post # 36
2889 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

He may think she said that just to throw him off? I would act like what she said is no biggy and leave him wondering!

Post # 39
6512 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

It seems like it was an honest mistake.  I am really surprised that people are saying it was either malicious or she is an idiot :/  It sounds like she was just excited about her friend getting married.

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@blueflowers:  That is really cool!  I’d bet money that your fiance, if he even noticed her say that, would never envision something along those lines.  No worries – you are going to blow him away 🙂

Post # 40
1462 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Total over reacting because he still doesnt any idea what kind of dress it is or the style so she spoiled what you thought was a surprise. He will still be surprised because his mind is racing but he still has no clue…Let it go you are marrying the man of your dreams. There are other things to worry about…

By the way Congrats!!!Cool

Post # 41
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m so sorry 🙁 it is all the little details and surprises in weddings that are the best, so it sucks for you that the cat is out of the bag…  On the other hand, the cat IS out of the bag, and there’s nothing you can do about it.  All you can do is forget it (or be upset, but that’s no fun for anyone).  

SO, I would love to see this lavender dress!  do you have a pic?  Lavender has been a key color in my wedding since day one and I got so excited when I read that your dress is lavender!  I’m so excited for you 😀

EDIT:  I just read that you don’t have a pic, duh lol.  Googling now…. and it’s gorgeous! Love it you will be stunning I’m sure!

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