(Closed) My bridesmaid wants to dress up like a hooker :I

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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287 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Haha the exact same thing happened to me! One of bridesmaids wanted to get a skin tight dress that was super short and had her boobs out on display.  I simply laughed it off and told her she wasn’t going to the club, she was going to a classy wedding.  But if you can’t do that with her just limit her. Tell her you want a classy look, so a little longer skirt. 2″ heels and tell her to use natural colors on make up. (Browns on her eyes and a soft glossy lip) You can tell her that your photographer suggested that on the makeup so it wouldn’t look dated. 

Post # 5
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243 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yeah, leave your Future Sister-In-Law to your FH to deal with. That will be one less thing for you to think about (and you can ward off potential bad feelings between you and the FSIL). and it will give your FH something to do. 🙂

Post # 6
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Its your wedding so you can tell her what to wear. I would just laugh about it and then say “no you’re not wearing that”

Post # 7
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236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think its a jealousy thing… my older sister is causing me lots of grief with my wedding planning and a lot of it has to do in my opinion to the fact that she chose to have a city hall wedding which was her choice and now shes just jealous. Shes telling everyone shes the matron of honor because she cant be a “regular” bridesmaid since shes married (as if shes the first married woman on the planet to be a bridesmaid) and is demanding a different dress in the color of HER liking since the Maid/Matron of Honor has the option. She refuses to wear a gown and keeps emailing me and showing me these little mini dresses that barely stop at the knee… so my advice to you is what was given to me by my Fiance and that is, as difficult as it can be to deal with someone like this just lay down the law and say its either my way or the highway period because at the end of the day if she wants to be apart of your day she has to do things your way.

I truly know how upsetting it is because you dont want to have to fight with people over the most important day of your life…

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

At the end of the day its your wedding so you should have final say in what your girls are wearing. Just tell her when she picks something out like that.. Thats not really my vision Im sure we can find something else we both agree on.

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