- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
ok heres the problem i love my two bridesmaids, lets call them megan and sophie, they are both my best friends and have alot in common with them for very different reasons. the problem is they really dont get on that well. We all used to get on really well however for reasons that are too long to say they really don’t like eachother and therefore are not friends.
Now i dont particularly care if they are friends not as long as my relationship with them is ok but they will have to find a middle ground as they will be planning my hen do and also be helping with the planning the wedding an both seem to be really excited to do this.
one of the girls got married recently therefore knows alot about planning a wedding (i was her bridesmaid) and the other is very creative and has great ideas so the two together should be a good combo. However i was having lunch with megan the other day and she was saying that sophie better not take over just cause she has planned a wedding, she had also said she has tried to talk to sophie via text and phone calls but she hasnt responded. sophie would do this quite often so this didnt suprise me but has annoyed megan even more.
I am the agony aunt of my friends and i love this role but i dont particularly wanting to get involved in this as i think its all abit childish (very much she said this and i said that but i can understand why both girls are upset and angery with each other).
i am feeling very awkward about it all and dont know what way to handle it. Any advice??
ps sorry long post lol