My Bridesmaids expect me to pay for them

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 50
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3148 posts
Sugar bee

Why are you saying you’re ok with not having a bachelorette party? That’s not true at all. You flipped out and booked it all yourself!! If they dropped the ball, then just let it drop if you’re truly ok not having one.

Post # 57
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5170 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

I don’t understand why you are saying it was their idea to throw an elaborate party not yours? They might have had the initial idea but you are the one that actually booked it! You can’t say you didn’t want it and are happy with a chilled night if you went behind their backs to contact venues and book the big party. 

Post # 58
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540 posts
Busy bee

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septemberwedding2019 :  Hmm, I read your other post where you organised your entire hensbecause you felt they were not no top of it enough. You kind of put a nail in your coffin there, you should have let it flop if you didn’t care for one. Going ahead and booking it all in tells a different story. 

Post # 59
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398 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

You do keep saying they could have told you if it’s too much money but….. they kind of are……. 

I have done the conversion and I think it’s quite a lot of money personally. I also don’t have kids and do have a full time job and I would not want to pay that much either. 

I think there might be a bit more to this than meets the eye plus if you can afford to help out then please do so! Just to reiterate, this is your wedding, not anyone else’s. Do try to remember that. 

Post # 60
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723 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

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septemberwedding2019 :  I see you took down your other post about your bachalorette party. You went crazy that they hadn’t booked anything. You even called different venue’s to see if they had anything booked and when you found out they didn’t you got pissed!!! You keep saying “they” wanted to do this and “they” wanted to do that. Come on. It’s you who wants it. I’m not sure who you think your are fooling here, but us bee’s are pretty smart. Some of read your other post (you put it up the same time as this one) and can figure out who is the WANTS this and that (it’s funny how you took that post down by the way). So don’t play the games with us, at least be honest because we can read you like a book. 

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