(Closed) My Bridesmaids hate their dress- Can you make me feel better?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Can you post a picture of it?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

let’s see what you picked? I’d honestly wear anything but if I don’t like it I don’t like it. If you’re that upset you should change the dress if not, just think “who cares”.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Can you post a picture of the dress? I don’t see how either of them have much room to complain considering the circumstances around how it was chosen.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Haha my Fiance has some serious spite for my sister because of the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses as well. They really should have told you they weren’t crazy about it, why would they agree only to complain afterwards? Seems like theyre being a royal PIA. And tell your sister to stuff it, she doesn’t get to alter the dress to her liking, if you want them to match she has to do what you say. BMzillas are the worst!!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Lets see a pic!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think it’s darling! Is it a David’s Bridal dress??

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

I think it’s super cute!!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t think its bad at all.  Maybe the straps can be removed and a cute chunky necklace added. 

What color shoes are you doing?  Silver? 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@Tswife4ever: My girls got that, too! I did have a problem with a bridesmaids dress and they did exchange it. I don’t know why they’re saying you can’t exchange it! I know you can’t get a refund or exchange if it’s a sale/clearance type thing.

Any possibility them liking it more if you added some kind of sash?

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Your sister has absolutely no room to say anything.

Your friend…money is tight right now and she probably feels that she could be spending the money on something else, like bills BUT she is making every effort to be a bridesmaid and took the iniative to call the store and make it work.

I’m a little put off by your FI’s comment that you “even let her back in” the wedding…you know she’s going through a tough time and she’s being a good friend. Just keep in mind she has bigger issues on her mind right now.

Maybe pick some cute accessories for them as gifts? That might smooth it over a bit.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

how can your sister complain about a free dress?

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