(Closed) My Bridesmaids' Shower Invitations are Nicer than Mine! :(

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2324 posts
Buzzing bee

Either back yourself in & stick with what you have OR you could ask them for help? Maybe any changes / suggestions they may have to make your invites look better?

Post # 4
60 posts
Worker bee

Personally, I would stick with their invitations. NOT because they are “better” but becaues they are technically hosting your shower. If they are planning and paying let them use their invitations. Maybe you can convert yours into thank you cards?

Post # 5
10648 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

@livelaughlove245:  I think she’s talking about her wedding invitations.  She thinks the shower invitations look better than the ones for the wedding.


@reynaweddingbee:  Right?

If that’s the case, I would go with them.  It sounds like it’s a different feel and it’s nice to have invitations that give guests an idea as to the feel of the wedding.

Also, it’s easier to do something more elaborate for a shower, as there’s usually a much smaller guest list.

Post # 6
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013


Post # 7
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@reynaweddingbee:  Awww. If you like your invites keep them how they are!

When my BFF got her bridal shower invite in the mail the first thing she did was text me saying “The invites you guys made are nicer than my wedding invites will be!” ๐Ÿ™‚ She thought it was funny. 

I wouldn’t worry about it. You are absolutely the only person who will compare them!

Post # 11
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@reynaweddingbee:  Yeah. Try to shake it off. ๐Ÿ™‚ Your invitation reflects the feel of your wedding. Bells and whistles and glitter are great for a bells and whistles and glitter party. 

Post # 12
5399 posts
Bee Keeper

I would not give this more than 2 seconds of thought. Nobody is going to compare your invitations with the shower invitations (and only a handful or people will even have both, right?). And if anyone does compare, they will forget about it 30 seconds later. This is really very inconsequential. 

Post # 13
8 posts
  • Wedding: August 2013

Hiiiiiii! I know this is a slightly older post. Just wanted to sat I hope you stuck with ur invites! They sound beautiful & not simple at all!! I wish I had those kinds of problems! I have to deal with unclear invitations misspellings of my name & the like! Congrats on your upcoming day!! 

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