(Closed) My bridesmaids wants guests to give money towards my shower.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
3 posts
  • Wedding: November 2013

I am in the similar situation. 

However, thank God my coworkers who are not in the wedding party asked to plan my bridal shower. Which, I am fully funding. I would feel awful having my bridesmaids spend more money since they are already paying for dress, make-up, hair, shoes, jewelry, travel; etc. 


Good Luck!!!

Post # 18
2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@drod:  My sister (MOH) didn’t want to have to rent a room for a shower for me- so she’s having it at my mom’s house (her house is not big enough, nor is mine for her to host here)- I am almost positive that my mom will paying for parts of it- just because my sister is notorious for being the biggest tightwad on the planet (I can say that- she’s my sister).  My mom did help put a little $$ towards my sister’s shower- I was a Stay-At-Home Mom at the time, and my son’s father was an alcoholic, so money was an interesting thing to come by back then LOL  

if your mom doesn’t have a problem paying for it, or at least contributing to it- then I would ask her to step in- I don’t think it’s inappropriate is she is comfortable with it.

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