- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
My brother is mean to me and has been that way since we graduated college 3 years ago. He’s had 2 or 3 conversations with my fiance in the 5 years we’ve been dating. The idea of putting him in the wedding NEVER crossed my mind…honestly I wondered if he’d even show up! When I told my parents he wasn’t a groomsmen they freaked out! They told me I was being hateful and selfish and that it was one of those things I “had to do”. My fiance doesn’t want to ask him and I don’t want him to be in it, am I being ridiculous here? Is having my brother be one of HIS groomsmen necessary?